search a song from '90

sylvain-french

hello,
for beginning excuse me but i'm french and my english is not totally good !
i was in england in 1990, for a very short time, and i listenned a song looks like rap, it was a woman who sing, it's appear in the same time like monnie love with "it's a shame" ... i'm just remenber some words, but i havent' the singer and the title ... HELP !

"it's my life, but i won't let u go, the memory of u ......"

it's poor but i'm jut remember that ....
If someone can help me
Thank's !

a poor french ....
u can answer me by mail if u wan't : silvin-bzh@9online.fr